1) While I was returning home after enjoying a delicious buffet (which was after watching Spiderman III, certainly not a master piece but the best movie of the franchise, the most disappointing being Spiderman II), I had a Eureka movement. A long time ago, cartel heretic RaviKiran had claimed that civilization must be annihilated from time to time, so as to make people miserable and thereby eliminating ennui. Now I have a simpler solution, in one word, "Bureaucracy".
2) If you are moving to Pune and intend to drive a bike, it is advisable to get rid of your spine, in fact all the bones. I am feeling a bit tender (literally, not figuratively)
3) Now to more important things. Consider the statement, "the sum of the angles of a triangle is always equal to two right angles". This holds true every where whichever nook and corner of universe you might be*.
The above statement is a theorem and once proved using necessary steps has universal validity as long as the the underlying assumptions hold.
As opposed to theorems, "rule of thumb" is not supposed to be accurate, more a reflection of existing context, and therefore statistical in nature. Also unlike theorem it is not dependant on mathematical proof.
This means I can say "If I were to state the rule in one sentence, “Don’t do anything in
public,that you would’t do in front of your parents”. How is this? ", to summarize my argument, even though it is possible that there are parents who like to watch their offspring swear in front of them, or fornicate in front of them, or even fantasize about having a bit of poontang with them. I can state my rule of thumb without caring about what logic may say, as long as I can demonstrate that my rule holds empirically.
4) Now coming to logic, suppose there are two attributes 'X' and 'not X' (represented as '~X'), you assign a action 'S' either of above attributes dependant on a criteria 'func', such that 'func(S)' either evaluates to 'X' or 'not X' . Now if you assign a certain action, a certain attribute based on certain criteria, it is perfectly logical for me to ask what attribute you will assign a different action based on same criteria. Therefore when I ask this, all I am interested is in value judgement system, I am not concerned about 'truth value' of that action. More on in it later.
5) Public property and private property is different. A theatre is a private property, a television is a private property, a road is not (or to be precise more often than not). I don't care about private properties, for all I care people are free to organize roman orgies in a theatre or show smut on channel as long as the owner of property is willing**, because I can avoid going to them. I am concerned with public property, I can't avoid walking on road. People should have that much of common sense.
6) Now before jumping onto more important things, a clarification.
I am a normal human being, those looking for alpha males (or females) should look elsewhere, I am sure Indian blogosphere is full of them. Further while the questions whether I have kissed, or I had orgies while in college or whether I use toilet paper or good old finger may be of interest to some (for whatever godforsaken reason), I don't discuss my private life on blog, and I find a bit amusing when people do it. I also do think that it is a somewhat of a sorry state of affairs when debates degenerate to the level where mocking someone for "scores" is considered to be humorous or witty. To repeat I never claimed I was a lady killer, if someone thought otherwise I can't help it.
7) Back to the topic, expecting that deductive reasoning can explain existence is absurd. Considering we are living in age of conceit, it is positively dangerous (for civilization). Of course that will not stop people from believing in exactly the same folly.
8) As far as public decency or more generally social ethos go, I have already claimed that I don't have watertight logic. From my previous statement I also do not believe such kind of logic is possible for all the cases, this case is certainly one. Social ethos if any exists is dependant on the context.
Pharoahs married their sister, Greeks had Paederasty, Spartans instituted nudity as a custom to forge soldier society, also infanticide was acceptable in Greece. Then there are the societies, imagined in "Stranger in a strange land", "Moon is a harsh mistress" , "The number of the beast"and even "Time enough for love"
Even considering if I were pushed, I can only venture the explanation that I feel sex is something which is very intimate and private and therefore bedroom is a proper place for it.
Of course kissing is not intercourse, but at least in case of India, it is in the same league, if not the same ballpark.
But why should I feel so. I am again at less. But if I were to hazard a guess, then it would be something like this. I believe that a result of evolution, human is among the few animal who can procreate at any time of the year, and also who indulges in sexual activities purely for pleasure (the other being dolphin, I think) . I think that these factors make sex a very strong influence on human instinct, just like hunger. And also like hunger, even for sex evolution is not able to keep up with rapid changes humans have affected. And hence social mores evolve to moderate the influence of sex. That combined with the fact that sex is a crucial (if not the most) factor effecting the stability of the fundamental unit of society, that is family and therefore the whole society. Hence this historical progression to push sex towards a private sphere. But I am not a expert in evolution and therefore this is at most uninformed conjecture. Of course one can wax poetry about entwined bodies and what not, but I am afraid it is just lots of nonsense.
9) Now resuming from 4) If someone declares that his criteria (or 'func') to be 'personal freedom' and attribute a certain attribute (that is 'being right') to certain action ('kissing in public') , I can ask what will be the judgements for other actions ('copulation in public', 'incest','bestiality', 'Necrophilia'), it is immaterial what percentage of population will indulge in such activities. The question is value system based on deductive logic and not empirical data.
Continuing on this, whether considering how incest is a even bigger taboo than kissing in public place, it may be even cooler to have incest-a-thon (or bang-a-goat-thon) for "freedom lovers".
Also how many will participate in it.
11) That's it. It's 7:15 in the morning and I am feeling very very sleepy.And yes, can we have a little less of grandstanding and more of understanding. May be, too much of self indulgence and disdain for others is not a good thing. Generation 'Me', what a pathetic joke.
Update. Ok forgot to add
* This theorem holds only in Cartesian space in Euclidean geometry.
** And others are free to boycott the owner or even the participants